Who knows. Or the inability to care about circumstances in our roomie situation that were distressing to me as I thought of her like a sister. He can't see or type his sister's name in his FB IM? Tell me, what can make you cr What's hard is, is that a lot of this does happen. Mr. Libra 2 was buying me gifts, showing up at my house (uninvited) and sent me a message saying he "Loved me with every fiber of his being"! We'd take up for a stranger in a minute if their being treated unfairly no matter color, race, sex, or religion if its unfair it brings the rage out in us. Simply with using second person nouns such as "You can," and "You should.". The Libra 2 guy I knew literally created a conflict between a Sagitarrius girl I did NOT know -- she was sending me DM's telling me how much she HATED me and I was thinking, I don't know this girl and she doesn't know me except for seeing photos of me with Mr. Libra on Facebook. We are the empaths of the Zodiac.the unconscious rhythm of the universe connected to both sides of all things: Light/Dark - Good/Evil - Balance/Chaos - Moderation/Gluttony - Sanity/Insanity - Love/Hate - Beauty/Ugliness - Consciousness/Unconsciousness etc etc etc. Then he would get mad insanely mad when ignored. We can see all sides to all things.all dimensions.all patterns..all rhythms.all nuances. I'll counter her with a weapon she despises kicking and screaming back into her own pit of hell yes, I'll kill her with my own personal happiness! You won't have to worry about a Libra cheating. Librans can truly be cruel and selfish, manipulative and conniving. Look: This is a very typical attitude for a Libra man. Its a constant battle. I realize Libras can be a handful and it takes a special person to be with one of us; but may I suggest to all of you that the moment you find out a person is a Libra, turn on your heel and run. 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Try to spend plenty of quality time with your Libra because they value one-on-one time and often aren't happy being alone. My strict advice as a Leo, NEVER EVER GO FOR A SCORPIO no matter if ur sign is a good match and if u do get along in the startU will just end up ruined or even dead. But talk to damn much. Show her that you are interested in spending time with her, as this will help you ensure that she does not create any relationships that will cause her to suffer in the future. I don't care about anything when I'm happily in love. If you think libras like the fine things and fancy clothes, they want the best public image as well. A Libra woman may decide that it is acceptable to simply ignore or dismiss topics that she doesn't want to speak about. Not even the same first letter. I looked each up, the decans explained it well. Without support, a Libra woman may begin to behave in a reckless manner. Do Libras hide their emotions? This is very true about Libras. She was having an affair with a much younger man who lavished gifts on her constantly, this we knew was true, she talked terribly about him behind his back, belittling berating and putting him down constantly, she would talk badly about other staff when she thought no one was around, if you caught her at it and called her out on her behaviour then you could count yourself the enemy. She talks shit about everyone and try to coaxes you into hating those people that she hates as well. And for those poor souls who's either or both parents/ brothers or sisters/in laws etc were Librans- Ouch, I truly feel sorry. When she reacts in an inappropriate manner, it is likely that she will push people away from her. Really a Pisces dreamworld is the realest compared to it. I like to surround myself with positive happy people. Chastity, this article is solely about Libra's dark side. All scorpios are poison and made out to be like we're the horrible ones. Not all Librans try to make it up to people, but I know a good portion of them out there do. Sometimes I forget to get that information. One day, a Libran aquaintance (the now ex fiance of my partner's friend) tried to contact my partner one Christmas with a flurry of dramatic txts and voicemail as her fiance had dumped her. I married a Libra male for 6 years I was lucky to get only 1 year of child support out of him. i was a good kid. Also..psychopathssociopaths.idiots..bad fathers.narcissistsare in all zodiacs.and for this writer to associate it with one particular zodiac..just means they have something against poor libras. Last Updated on October 31, 2020 by Sloane Marie. So, for example, when you tell someone that you are feeling happy or depressed, that can reference just about anything but only you know what those emotions really mean to you. For me i prefer friends who speak brutal true than sweet but fake words. I fucking hate myself when I'm grumpy and it makes it even worse. When this occurs, she may choose to turn her attention elsewhere. Likewise, when Libras initiate a split, they often lead with agreeable, ambiguous language (for instance, Libras would rather "take a break" than "break up"). They also crave balance, and they can be equally as self-indulgent as they are generous. I know Librans do this, I'm one of them. And I know there's a dark side but I'm not a dark person. I'm sorry many of you have had incredibly bad experiences with Librans, but understand that not all of them deserve to be so harshly judged. The signs a Libra man is trying to hide his feelings aren't always that obvious but you can't really ignore the fact that he constantly smiles and laughs around you and his eyes are always sparkling when he sees you. I have negative experiences with them, well the females not the males. Yes I do get angry and yes I get angry a lot sometimes. However, the stuff you put into the Libras mind it stays there. When she feels that she is doubtful or uncertain about her decisions and her future, she may decide that the best course of action is to avoid people and conversations. Don't take this as a sign of weakness or to underestimate use.v.e.r. It's extremely unfair to call Sylvia Browne a fake psychic. The other two Libras were two different guys at my college who literally went 20 miles out of their way to pursue me (and later stalked) me after I rejected them, ended communications. The man Libra is loyal and faithful when it comes to love relationships. I think that is just right when etiquette is concern. Cancerians are the mommas of the friend group, regardless of gender. Telling an Aquarius Woman How You Feel: How Do You Do It? hi, i would like to know which one is more accurate sun sign or moon sign. A lifelong libra friend I'm strongly considering giving up. The best I could figure is why Mr. Libra 2 was so eager to be with me is. Thank you. Knowing of her as a libra, I'd expect her to make negotiations and try to change things to her liking, but I'm usually the one having to do that. Kind loving. That said, they can still become wound up like they're on the brink of a nervous breakdown, meaning their emotions are much bigger than what you see on the surface. Which is usually just a LIE. My friend never said a single word ever. While this may seem like a negative trait, it can actually be quie . Pro Libra tip: let go of your high expectations and unreal fantasies, life will become a lot more easier. Libra people are charming and very easy to attract you. I realized that I was obsessed with being in love and finding someone who loves me and takes interest in me, and goes the extra mile for me. I have a horrible relationship with my parents and my brother. Throughout the majority of her life, a Libra woman is aware of herself when she makes decisions. I let her Stew in her own poop made it worst. Yeah I do see these traits in myself I just find it happens when I'm being too nice or something and I always seem to attract the wrong people. Im working on how to tell which person I should be friends with and people just taking advantage of me. As you know im a libra and have a pretty hard time saying no so i find people can see that and then after a bit take advantage of that and sometimes just use me and then after a while it all just builds up into sadnesss and anger and its just ahhhh idk how to get rid of it lol oh yeah and i smile and laugh at my own misery alot idk why but i find it funny. By the way, those of you who had Libran parents that treated you like garbage, what's your sign? 5.) I once got angry at one of my siblings and I zoned out while I was close to their neck to chock them. Hi everyone, I am a Libran that you guys are bad-mouthing/talking about. Libra women are sad and insufferable. Lying from the little things to the big things, both white lies to black lies. BUT with my loved ones I AM WHO I AM. nothing was her fault. If your not a "capricunt" you have the face and attitude for one. Often, the question "Why?" The ones i know are just crazy,they put other's in danger with their pseudo judgements,cool you don't like drama,then think better if you don't like to see people suffer,no wonder aries is the opposite,you have to be ignorant and strong like an aries to let go so easy of so much bull a libra can ask for. A negative Libra will move in with or marry someone to escape the financial or emotional pit they have dug for themselves. Known for being indecisive and eager to please, this air sign is unlikely to ever initiate a breakup and very likely to mourn one long after it's over. Their sadness is one of hopelessness and they're prone to giving into it. They become oppositional, but with less enthusiasm, making it seem like little things don't really matter anymore. She buys and bribes people with any means. I am almost offended by this "even the best libras do not think you have feelings or a brain". I have a stellium in libra sun moon mercury venus and they are all in the 12th house. Or when she brought home a kitten who was kept locked in a bedroom so for 6-12 hours ( usually for a long time )so she wouldnt be bothered because the kitten wanted to play. They might have obsessive thinking and remember every bad event that's happened to them, even blaming themselves for the most innocuous things. Until after we became roommates did I see time & time again her inability to ever defend me. They have this bubbly, sweet and openminded personality and claim to only want peace; until you realize how much they crave dramas with all their badmouhthing against the people they claim to be "friends". Shes ugly on the inside and on the outside and she's vain for no reason. I am leaving him in God's hands because I know one day he will pay for all these sick acts he's committed. So if i find your chatty, im out of here. Unfortunately, some people are selfish, insensitive, and don't know how to value a sincere person like myself. I. I'm here to work on my imperfections but what I see in comments is just hate?!?!?! I wont bite ur head off lol. All are alike but different also. By hurtful i mean really hurtful libras observe and are very diplomatic, they watch your everyday behavior ask you lots of questions if they are interested and learn about you enough just to be able to push the right buttons to hurt you. I'm 28 years old , born on September 27 and I wish I can hear stories of girls who share the same birthday with me as I need some answers. RELATED: What Taurus Is Like In Relationships. They know how to break your heart and lie to you constantly in order to always look good and avoid confrontations. Im married too a Smokin Hot Libra MILF Shes a handful to deal with has a nasty attitude only directed at Her Husband Mevery controlling but Im a handsome Pisces I can deal with anybody or anythingWhen She does make Love Shes a Credit too Her Gender. My ruling element is air, ruling sign Gemini and as a Gemini, I can't stand Librans in general. Deciding to start a family is an exciting time. i am in my 40's and i have went total no contact with her on several times. Libra's feel and intuit EVERYTHING.so the world can be vastly overwhelming for those Libra's that don't have an earth sign to anchor them in this world. When I started to find my feet and grow back into my own skin and started embracing life (I started sewing classes and then attending Couture workshops) she didn't want to know. Yes, at this point I'm the meanest person i know. RELATED: The Negative Personality Traits Of The Scorpio Zodiac Sign, According To Astrology. Libras can be extremely easy going until their sense of justice is upset. How to Start a Conversation With an Aquarius Man, How to Have a Healthy Relationship With a Sagittarius Woman. Be Mysterious. Dark-side Librans ignore or hush up reports of pain or unpleasantness and fool themselves that things they don't acknowledge didn't happen. Libras strive for balance when hurt, making it hard to tell when something is wrong. and YES guess sometimes I lose hope. This was a great and successful political move and also true to his sign. One older female Libra and two younger males Libras. They need someone to talk to about their problems, in order to help them navigate life. While we were dating i let her know about my one true longtime best friend which was my first ex (gemini)from high school yrs (different schools). And I do know many people who fit this above profile but are not Librans and also not related to Libra in general. Of course all us libra aren't like that and have EVERY negative trait. Just dont bother try cheering up a Libran when they are in a bad mood. It's an incredibly difficult situation to be in when people don't believe you're telling the truth or being real. We lie bc we love people so much that we hate seeing any sadness in them, and also to protect ourselves from the evil and hurt of the world. I can't believe this is how I am? I was accused of keeping secrets, not being an open book. Both can be very friendly, sweet, helpfulbut then they seem to turn on a dime. They become unmotivated, hopeless, and start to over-think everything. I'm a virgo male and married a female libra. They can't believe us about her. I, am lazy, BUT not because I love doing nothing. Friendship and respect are a two-way street. Her friends, family members, or partner may begin to feel that she chooses to undermine their relationships. We were close like family and talked a lot on the phone and only during work hours(my choice after we started dating in 2000). seems the guys dont stay very long wonder why . Candice NY from NYC on December 02, 2018: Libras are great as long as you keep it superficial. I, might be a good actor to not-so-close people, or to be more accurate, the mirror - to be exact same reflection of themselfs. Very well. It all depends on what you do and what you don't do also my mood. i am sick of her controlling ways and i have decided that the scorpio cold shoulder is now here. She wants to feel free and keep it light, turning away naturally from people whose characteristics feel too negative or intense for her. I was a big fool. Librans, like the Scales that symbolise the sign, are often concerned with attaining balance, harmony, peace, and justice in the world. And to think I still stood by her EVEN when I was admitted and discharged till her demented form comes devouring me inside out again!!! but in reality this plan has been prepared too much in advance. I am loyal and very protective of my friends and loved ones. I think it's true that Libras like things balanced and harmonious. Mmmmm Librans, Ive known a few, the first one a friend of a friend, a woman, I overheard bitching me out about my extra pounds (lol) in a pub one night, she was sitting in the next booth to me blissfully unaware that I could hear everything she was saying about me, me sagittarius with a big ego (and ass) apparently and a sharp little virgo moon wasted no time in letting her have my arrows, it shut her up! He had tons of pornographic magazines when a teenager. Should she be pressed, then she may behave in a manner that removes herself from that person's presence. Most times anything short of that makes me feel unwanted. As long as you are not looking for clear advice or decision making, 4) When we love, we love with every part of our heart, we are absolutely ready to drop anything and everything for you. I apologize and we move on. With that infinite patience also come a storm brewing inside that once boils over will look something like the Dark Phoenix rising to burn the earth to nothing. Throughout the years we dated other people but always kept in contact with each other. All libras say that hate being embarassed; so much that they are willing to betray someone or talk shit about someone else in public to distract everyone's attention from their flaws or faults. The second was a much much older woman that I used to work with was such a liar I mean she lied about everything she would embellish the facts so much so that it made everyone around her smile because they knew what she was up to and still she carried on, it became a bit of a joke amongst the staff, but the thing that stood out for me was how unbelievably cold hearted this woman was, I mean stone cold ruthless to the core, this libra was married, had been for many many years had several children with her husband apparently had suffered much abuse from her husband but continued to live with him because it suited her financially, her words, not mine! Also i can tell when someone lies so easily buy the way they look at you . Their lover. When he was on his drinking binge, everything and anything was fair game. yes, avoiding confrontation is not a tenable objective and will lead to outbursts (what's term in the title- yes, repressed); people born in October avoid confrontation, no = can't be proven. They may feel so lopsided, they'll stop caring about their favorite things, even severing ties with their passions completely. They don't do petty gossip; instead, they pride themselves on being a person people can confide in. They try to show that nothing is wrong. Super selfish people who never know what they want and live in fear of being alone, that's why they are easy to jump in a new relationship super fast. If peace cant be had, silence and secrets will do. Do Libras hide their emotions? Libras are known to hide their real feelings in order to avoid conflicts with the people around them. It's a bad place to be when someone makes you feel you don't know what you're talking about, are stupid, or just plain crazy. Now I have blocked her on everything & have zero plans to ever speak to this intensely superficial flake as i realize now beyond the woo hoo party thats all she was really good for & coming to this understanding broke my heart. To start with, yes when we are grumpy we are the worst thing that can happen to humanity. has no answer. My step mom was a Libra very selfish insecure woman who made sure my life was a living hell growing up. (tall, thin, blond). Libra women, when sad or upset, often find that their behaviors betray their emotional turmoil. i dnt care. I have hit that point in life where the realization of who I truly am is so upsetting that I despise myself. If one looks at the long picture of a persons actions or decisions, they may fall more into one sign than others. When sadness tips that balance, they can fall over. I know that sounds brash, and probably just as bad as how Librans have been painted on here, but there is a very specific driving force as to why I acted the way that I did, and it's because of how how she treated my children. I didn't realize it until reading some of the things and saw it was talking about me. I think the problem is that you were too selfish and judgemental instead of taking the time and making a genuine effort to get to know and understand a Libra better, you chose to ASSume, criticize, demean, and judge someone you never really got to know. To be honest, I am more aware of my faults than of my strengths. Mind & heart got twisted in and out 24/7 till I broke down entirely. He's a talker, someone who wants to deal with any problem in a relaxed and communicative manner. )are NOT COMPATIBLE? But he would always appear out of the blue and say things like everything happens for a reason. The secret to any Sun in Libra is they hate to be alone. We are extremely patient.but not always forgiving..it is best not to cross a Libra..unless you want your soul torn to the corners of the universe. How can two people who are different yet the same say the same thing about me? I used to call her a best friend but she is far from it. Negative Librans are worrywarts and being or feeling alone is the most horrible thing they can imagine. RELATED:The Saddest Zodiac Signs That Are Most Likely To Be Depressed. I see a lot of my dark traits right there. Mr. Libra was literally trying to break up my marriage. Being a librans family member might be pretty difficult they dont mind providing what they are supposed to provide for the family usually spoiling them, they dont mind spending quality time with their kids and wife. If you notice that she has isolated herself, then you should take the time to teach yourself about what happens when a Libra woman is sad. Munay, I am a Libra and I have to disagree on every aspects lol for me personally I do good until Im messed over as soon as you mess over me its over with. I know a few Libras. RELATED: The Best & Worst Personality Traits Of The Capricorn Zodiac Sign. I am a Libra, and I am artistic, love to play "wordsmith games", unfortunately my quirky sense of humor precludes anyone appreciating my "wit" most of the time. yes every sign has a dark side. Pisces is the most sensitive sign in the zodiac. They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. I let her into my world denying my gut instinct and being the stupidly open person I can be, shared a few secrets - thankfully nothing shameful, just emotional things from my past. This ability to read people allows them to avoid conflict by hiding their true feelings. Invite her somewhere she feels comfortable, and ensure that she feels that you are concerned about her well-being. 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